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The Fear of Speaking One’sMind in Trump’s America.

Writer: David GargaroDavid Gargaro


Yesterday evening, a large contingent of supporters chanted “Send her back!” at a Trump rally

in Greenville, NC in response to the President’s unashamed display of demagoguery

concerning an American elected official.

Following a week of racist attacks, Somalia-born US citizen Minnesota Rep. Ilhan Omar, again

came under attack from the President — who contends she, alongside three fellow female

Democratic officials of color, should leave the United States if her agenda does not mirror that

of the administration.

As a citizen of the United Kingdom who has now held a green card for five years, I am now

eligible to become a citizen of the United States. While I am thrilled to finally have a chance to

become naturalized in the country I love and respect most, I am terrified of what the

citizenship process may now entail due to the Trump administration’s increasingly hardline

approach to immigration. Despite having obtained three degrees in the United States and

being married to an active-duty Lieutenant Colonel in the US Army, I fear that speaking out

against the President’s divisive rhetoric will count against me during the immigration process.

And it shouldn’t.

In 2016, I chose to leave my career as an orchestral conductor to pursue a career in politics.

Being a UK citizen, BREXIT served as the initial catalyst for that decision but later, in November

of that year, Donald Trump’s triumph at the polls was the deciding factor for me to leave the

career I loved. An ardent Hillary Clinton supporter, I was endlessly impressed by her relentless

pursuit of equality, and her steadfast admiration for the US Constitution. Further, I desperately

wanted it to be time for women to finally shatter that glass ceiling so they could have an equal

voice in government, and beyond. However, I mainly left my career in protest; I simply could

no longer agree with the direction the US was heading in and wanted to do my own small part

to enact change within the government.

It hasn’t been easy. My decision to leave classical music has forced me to go back to school to

obtain another degree, this time in political management, and my lack of professional

experience within the political world has made it nearly impossible for me to get my foot in the

door in Washington. While feeling isolated at times, I continue to find solace in that many have

made similar sacrifices.

The international outcry from women and their allies has rapidly catapulted equality to the

forefront of our national dialogue and brought with it a new wave of political warriors who

have a score to settle. The four female freshman Representatives who have sought to make

America a better place, are at the helm of this effort. To deride their earnest efforts as

unpatriotic—while using their race as a weapon—is unconscionable and dangerous.

Those who continue to counter the discordant tone coming from the White House, have done

so by amplifying messages of unity, mutual respect, and dignity for all. But for those who have

chosen to blindly parrot the misguided chant of “Send her back!”, it should be understood

that history will not smile kindly. Throughout history, the global community has encountered

racism and hatred of this ilk that—while wielding damning results in the moment—have

eventually failed, only to fizzle out over time. This time is no different, and here’s why:

Even though many leaders have tried, patriotism can be owned by no one man. Much like his

real estate, Trump’s name acts merely as a superficial branding of what lies within; a hollow

idea of what being wealthy really is, and an incomplete realization of what patriotism really

means. It seems clear that his supporters have thus far been unable to sniff out the phony,

illogical brand of patriotism Trump represents. But in time, his support base will come to

realize that Trump is only as good as his word, and that they may be next to find themselves

on the chopping block.



 
 
 

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